The Growing Crisis Among Young Men: Gareth Southgate’s Perspective
Gareth Southgate recently addressed what he sees as a deepening crisis among young men, citing increasing social isolation and a lack of positive role models as key concerns. His comments came in response to the "Lost Boys" report from The Centre for Social Justice, which highlighted a troubling rise in young men disengaged from work, education, or training. The report also pointed to how some are being drawn toward extreme ideologies in search of guidance and belonging.
During the Richard Dimbleby Lecture, Southgate emphasized that too many young men are struggling in silence. Without strong mentors—whether teachers, coaches, or bosses—many are left without direction, causing them to retreat further into isolation. He argued that, in their search for identity and purpose, some young men turn to unhealthy coping mechanisms such as excessive gaming, gambling, and pornography.
He also called out the influence of online figures who promote toxic masculinity, warning that these personalities manipulate young men by equating success with power, wealth, and emotional detachment. He expressed concern that such ideologies reinforce the idea that vulnerability is a weakness, fostering an unhealthy mindset that alienates young men from meaningful relationships and personal growth.
Southgate’s remarks come as media discussions surrounding these issues intensify. The recent release of Adolescence, a Netflix drama co-created by Stephen Graham, explores the radicalization of young men through online misogyny. Co-creator Jack Thorne has urged the government to take stronger action against these growing online subcultures, stressing that ignoring the problem will only allow it to worsen.
With voices like Southgate’s bringing these concerns into the spotlight, the conversation about how to better support young men is becoming increasingly urgent. Addressing these challenges requires not just awareness but a proactive effort to foster healthier environments where young men feel seen, supported, and encouraged to express themselves.
